Okay so yesterday I posted about how my FIL has decided to show who he really is….
Although it is new to me, it is not new to anyone else that knows him. Like His son and ex. So maybe I should have listened almost a decade (ish) ago when my husband said he doesn’t really care to have a relationship with his father.
I didn’t have a father. So I thought if my husband has the opportunity to have a relationship with his…he should take it…
it totally backfired in my face.
But after the fall out that happened at my youngest daughters birthday party via text messages with my FIL…. he had decided to stop talking to me. I even sent him a simple text about apologies and haven’t heard anything from him. And that was almost a week ago.
Honestly, I don’t care. So he doesn’t want to talk to me anymore.
That is just fine. I no longer have to deal with him. or worry about what I should or shouldn’t say in front of him. Or try not to offend him since we do not have the same religion.
It is so much easier when toxic people stop talking to you… it is like the trash taking itself out…. As in I didn’t have to do anything in regards to the disconnection of communication.
But they are still bothering my husband so I do still have to deal with it a little bit 😦