So I hear that people think I am a bitch quite a lot. And they hear this because others have told them so.

But why do these people who are going around telling others I am a bitch think I am a bitch.


The only thing I can think of is that they’re confusing my attitude with my personality

My personality is kind, helpful, anxious, protective, and many other words. I think I am a good person and a lot of others have said I am. Those that see my actual personality.

However, my attitude is not my personality. It is however determined based upon who I am interacting with. there are actually many reasons for why I have a good attitude with some people and a bad attitude with others.

It is actually hard to understand or explain. A lot of time my moods are based upon those around me I am an empathetic person. Many times my emotions reflect those of the people around me even when I don’t want them too. So when someone is around and they’re putting off a bad vibe, I mirror that.

That is just one reason.

Another would be my attitude reflects of what they have done prior. The history of our interactions.

It is a lot of factors that go into it.


Don’t confuse my personality with my attitude.

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